I Don’t Feel Confused Around Him

Dear Delyara, This is one of the biggest victories in my relationship: I am not confused all the time. No mixed signals. No emotional hide-and-seek. No “I don’t know where I stand, but I feel deeply attached anyway.” No constant interpretation of tone, distance, or withdrawal. I didn’t realize how much confusion I had once accepted as normal in love until I experienced something steadier. The absence of confusion has given me more peace than romance ever did.