I had one evening where the unfinished thing did not take over

Dear Delyara, There is still something unresolved in my life. But this week, for one evening, it stayed where it belonged — present, but not total. Important, but not the whole atmosphere. I was able to eat, sit, breathe, soften, and let the unanswered thing remain unanswered without turning the night into rehearsal. That is not a small achievement for me. It is a very tender one. I’m grateful for the room around uncertainty growing larger inside me.