Other VictoriesBreaking Habits
I interrupted the old reflex before it became behavior
Dear Delyara, The old reflex started. And I noticed it. That is still astonishing to me. The urge to over-accommodate. To make the room easier for everyone else. To return to old versions of myself because they feel socially smoother. To trade truth for manageability before anyone has even asked me to. This time I stopped. Not perfectly. But early. Sometimes that is the whole shift. Not becoming a different person all at once, just catching the old one before she fully takes the wheel.
— amberline_60